Sanjo Jendayi Quotes

I spent most of my adult life in relationships some good, some bad. It took years for me to realize that I was the common denominator in all of these relationships and I needed to love me first. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Don't lose sight of your mission trying to see it through the eyes of others. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Social media is the only vehicle I know that progresses forward while the passengers regress. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Storms don't come to destroy you, they come to cleanse you. Lean into it and learn to fly in the storm! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

We say we love self
While pimping out our pussy
Yet, our wombs scream help. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Some are drawn to the light of your strength but can't handle the darkness of your weaknesses. If they run when the light gets dim, don't chase them. They have no understanding of how dark is necessary for light to shine its brightest. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Who you want to be is already inside of you waiting for you to confront who you are and tag them in to help you win the battle of the mind. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

If you keep finding yourself in the same situations, the Universe is prompting you to confront self! YOU are the common denominator. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Freedom looks beautiful and inspiring to those who desire & seek it; but Freedom looks like rebellion to those who have become complacent in hiding. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

When one's life has been shattered into a million pieces, most set out to pick up the pieces & rebuild. Others look at those broken pieces & decide this is their opportunity to start anew, the bigger picture comes into view. They see more, & want better so they leave those pieces scattered as a memorial to who they used to be! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

She stood before him fully clothed yet gloriously naked. He saw the universe through her and began to give praise! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

A woman's confidence separates the men from the boys. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Let us grow strong roots
Watering and nurturing
Each other daily. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Thank YOU TO all those helping others physically, financially, emotionally, mentally or spiritually. U are an "ally" of the soul. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Life is NOT short! It's just by the time we catch up to appreciating it ... we've already left life at least halfway behind us. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

I had to heal all of my broken pieces in a broken place but I was never once cut by the shards glistening in the dark. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Life is far too precious to waste it complaining. If you don't like where you are change it ... it's just that simple. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Oftentimes people expect Christians to be perfect but the reality is ... Spiritual perfection is imperfection! God then does His best work. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Truth is stranger than fiction because lies are much more convincing but the truth always comes out no matter how long it takes. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Don't cry over those who didn't check up on you or left you in crisis.

Cry and laugh with those who stand in celebration with you. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Champions don't give up; they get up! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Life can sometimes get the best of you but your state of mind determines your outcome. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Be mindful of your thoughts and words for they are the pen writing that which will manifest. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Somewhere along the way people became afraid to be single. To be unmarried, separate from others and lost their individuality searching for it in society's view of relationships. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Telling one lie begets another lie that begets another lie and before you know it that lie has grandkids, great grandkids and keeps growing. It's like Lay's Potato Chips, you can't tell just one! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

It took years to ask myself, "If I'm giving someone else my best and my ALL; what am I giving to myself?"

Lesson: Always give to yourself 1st and fill YOUR cup so others can catch the abundant overflow. #warriorstateofmind ~ Sanjo Jendayi

We live in a world where strangers see your gifts and those who know you can't get past the box you originally arrived in. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

When we intentionally tune into one another

We enter another realm.

We begin to speak without words.
Feel without touch.

See with our eyes closed.

Our bond is soul deep

and our love is a retreat

from this world as we know it. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

When asked why I am single, my reply is simply; I consider myself a black pearl rare in my authenticity, adding a mysterious beauty to the select few who can recognize & even fewer who appreciate my worth. So instead of dating, I throw myself into working in the field. If my Boaz recognizes me amongst the black rocks ... great! If not, the magnificence of my rarity will simply radiate onto those working the fields as well in the form of teaching, which is what I do. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Still your mind and become a witness to your thoughts through meditation. The more you do this, you open gaps of "no mind" which puts you in a very open, present state of consciousness whereby YOU become more awakened, more aware & more powerful! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

It's not happening to you, it's happening through you. Check your thoughts and your energetic output for the answers. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Listening doesn't always equate to hearing.

Hearing doesn't always lead to understanding

but active listening helps each person
truly "see" the other. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Since social media arrived social skills have declined. Fake became real and narcissists thrive! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Screw the mid-life crisis
Go have a mid-life spa day
A mid-life quickie
A midlife tiramisu
But whatever you do
DON'T give in to mid-life blues! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

We live in a world where illusion reigns and reality is frowned upon. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Choose your words wisely with consideration for others & self because repetitive, meaningless words ... leave people tone deaf. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

We live in a world where we will pay obscene amounts to see celebrities while we pray for those in need. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

We as a people have become so addicted to DYSFUNCTION that we don't recognize PEACE (man or woman) when it enters our energetic space.

We call PEACE soft, too nice, pushover, doormat and other names because PEACE respects you. PEACE cares about & for you. PEACE doesn't want to argue, PEACE speaks it's mind with healthy discussion & at the end of the day, PEACE says I Love you. PEACE keeps their word. PEACE enjoys spending time with you & treating you better than anyone else ever has but because of our addiction, we say this is too good to be true. We wait for the other shoe to drop. We check PEACE phone, follow PEACE home or just dismiss PEACE altogether because something just ain't right!" LEAVE that phone alone, STOP looking for a reason, and CHANGE your mindset. "Once you have begun down this new path, your vibrations will change & PEACE will start to walk with you, YOU will attract his siblings-Love, Joy, Kindness, Happiness & your relationships will become everything you inwardly desired but secretly believed you were not worthy of attaining. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Sometimes you have to let others tell their story about you...even if most of it is fabricated. Your character will tell your side without any words spoken. Do your best to vibrate high even in the midst of a shit storm. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

I AM FREE and all that I desire is lining up to meet me. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Sex has changed drastically over the years due to technology. The World Wide Web has boosted the sex market and made sex ever present. No one has to work hard anymore with sexting, Tango, Skype, and all the other ways you can initiate sex without ever even suckling on my damn nipple! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

You cannot heal what you will not unveil. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

There are times in life when you must seclude yourself and battle your thoughts. There are also times when you must call in the troops. The key is knowing when to make the call. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Real MEN don't need a woman covering for him because a Real MAN IS a woman's covering! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Trying to make sense of what makes no sense can render you senseless. Let it go. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

I tried to hold fire once...see from a distance it mesmerized me
captivated me
for hours at a time
The more it danced with the wind,
I felt my body sway to its rhythm
I tried to hold fire once
It's glow drew me in closer
And although I know full well the damage that fire can do...
Staring directly at it,
I know it's beauty too
It's warmth was now on my face and
I couldn't imagine being in any other place
I reached out with my bare hands &
it danced even more
And suddenly I felt it's heat deep within my core
Rising like a volcano ready to erupt
But somehow balanced & purposeful
I tried to hold fire once
until I realized that fire held me Passionately and
I was it's guiding force.
If you look close enough, you'll see it dancing in my eyes,
feel it in my touch,
even hear it in my voice...but don't ever forget that fire consumes and cannot be contained so I must master my energetic output to control the flames. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

She keeps telling
herself and others
that she doesn't want
a relationship to silence
the longing in her soul.
That alternative fact
feeds her insecurities
and starves her soul. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Greatness is sifted through the grind, therefore don't despise the hard work now for surely it will be worth it in the end. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Empathy seems to have been replaced with judgement in today's world. NO ONE has arrived. I repeat, NO ONE has arrived. We all experience joy, happiness, sadness, anger, disappointment, fear, etc ... Some of the most successful people have said things in interviews that give you a peek into their vulnerable areas. The differences are found in how we manage our own issues so if you are beating yourself up, comparing yourself or on the other end of the spectrum looking down on others ... please stop! We are all searching for significance in one way or another ... some have found it within while it takes others a little more time searching the outside. Be true to yourself and allow others to do the same. Remember, no one has it all together all the time. NO ONE HAS ARRIVED ... WE ARE ALL BE-COMING. HUMANS BE-ING. So let folks BE. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

God will not give you more than you can bear. Just when it feels like your back is breaking ... the weight is lifted & you can stand straight again. He knows just how much you can carry & you find out that you are stronger than you thought. You have also built muscles for the future. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Someone is assigned to not only hear your heart's song but will strum your heart strings melodically. Listen with your heart. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Laughter sets your entire soul ablaze with happy endorphins and shifts your vibrations. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

When that light within begins to dim, fan the flame just enough to spark something! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

We can all take pictures but not everyone can capture the beauty that's usually hidden in plain view ...
We can all open our mouth to sing but not everyone can melodically touch your soul ...
We can all pick up a pen to write but not everyone can write words in such a way that they leap off of the page for you ...
We can all part our lips to speak but not everyone can speak life into you ...
We can all move our bodies to a beat but not everyone can become one with music, stir emotions and shift energy with dance ...
Point is: WE CAN all do something but Know your gifts, cultivate them and ALWAYS, ALWAYS BE YOURSELF! Then working together becomes effortless. Copies aren't accepted everywhere ... ORIGINALS are eventually required! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Sometimes you can't see the road ahead but as you keep going, it gets clearer. Stay the course as the fog of life dissipates. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

...and because she had not completed her "self work" to fully understand her self worth...she ran away from a love that was soul deep, created just for her at that very moment. #journey2love #journey2self #selfworkisessential
#stoprunningandstand ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Sometimes, an apology sets free a part of you that you didn't even realize was caged ... and forgiveness destroys the cage. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

When Opportunity meets Preparation she greets her with open arms and they both say in unison, "Let's do this! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

If you love someone...tell them often.
If you haven't had time for loved ones... make it.
If you've been holding someone hostage through anger...free them & yourself.
If someone crosses your mind...reach out. Time waits for no one. Most of us have more time behind us than we do in front of us so live, love, laugh every chance you get. Create memories that outlive you! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

As long as you have breath, YOU have a chance! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Everything needs love ... and everything you do or don't do is a reflection of how you love you! ~ Sanjo Jendayi

A woman's heart is her prized possession and if she shares it with you, consider yourself blessed. It is vital to her very being; it has the capability to pump life-giving love into every living cell of your body. It can make a man believe he can fly. It can be like water to a man dying of thirst. It has the ability to keep both of you breathing when one's breath is taken away by life's ups and downs. In order for it to achieve these awe inspiring feats, a man must do his part to keep her heart beating for him. Because of her heart's vital role in sustaining the relationship, if you play with her heart and it stops beating for you…it most certainly will result in the death of the relationship.

In order for her heart to deliver this life-giving love to all of your cells, a love equally as strong must be pumped into every fiber of her being. That love must be capable of purifying the bad blood she has taken in throughout the day that took her breath away and bring pure love back to her heart. In this way it is a continuous cycle allowing reciprocal life-giving love to flow between the two of you sustaining the very life of your relationship. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

When you begin navigating your life towards your dreams; some will call you selfish, some will become uncomfortable and others will be inspired. The only thing that really matters is following the path to living YOUR best life. There may be detours, one way streets and occasional U-turns on this journey but allow your soul to get you there right on time. ~ Sanjo Jendayi

Dance to the light that is your soul. ~ Jendayi Frazer