Sharon Van Etten Quotes

I did jazz dance for a few years.

I think there are times in a lot of people's pasts where they've unintentionally fallen in love with really damaged people. You go out with someone who's a mess so you can feel less of a mess.

If you work on anything long enough hopefully you'll get better and I feel like we're just growing.

I grew up going to musicals with my mom here in New York, going to Broadway. I used to be in musicals in high school.

I love being domestic: making coffee, just putting on a record, and just sitting, not doing anything. It's so great.

You're the reason why I'll move to the city; you're why I'll need to leave.

The musician lifestyle is not easy for most people to understand. This is something I'm struggling with. When you're on tour, people think you're just having the time of your life and it's really romantic.

Saw Torres play their first New York show tonight at Cake Shop. SO good. Do yourself a favor and check out her record. Her voice is KILLER.

When you get home after being gone for a month or two, time moves on without you. You're scrambling to catch up with the people. Some friends and family understand, but then there are others who just think that you can't find enough time in your life for them.

I try to focus on the melodies and try to make everything else minimal. The melody and the lyrics are most important to me.

It's hard if you're just touring constantly. It's like, "What am I going to write about? I'm in the van, I'm playing another show ... " I'm still writing about heartbreak that happened years ago. I don't see the point of writing and putting out another record until I can do something else.

I really hope that when someone puts my record on that they hear me.

I guess I usually write when I'm in a really intense headspace, because it's my form of self-therapy.

I'm getting bored performing the same songs over and over. Songwriting comes and goes.

The only thing that's helped me get through some really hard times was just being able to write and express - it's very cathartic for me. I'm hoping that, by writing and performing for other people, it affects them the same way.

I don't want to bury anything in poetry.

I'm really out of touch with myself emotionally. I've always had a hard time talking about how I feel.

One day when I have a band I will have a band name, but since it's just me I feel it should just be my name. For me it doesn't make much sense since the music is from me and about me. I haven't ever been in a band.

I'm excited to go study and read and immerse myself in something.

Moving to New York City and doing what I do, social anxiety is a really ridiculous kind of curse to have. But I met people along the way who deal with it - performers as well - and they are learning to deal with it daily and deal with it in different ways.

Everything will be okay. I have a sticker on my laptop that says that.