Kelly Martin Quotes

Simply BEING is OKAY you know?
If you make space to 'be', your 'doing' becomes whole and balanced.

I realised that I needed the dark and the light to be a whole person. Trying to be happy by neglecting the harsh reality of my emotional world didn't work. All colours and shades of reality are experienced and by allowing these, without judgement, my heart opened to me. Self-love always starts with 'holding the hurt'.

Chaos, challenge & difficulty can be an opportunity for growth. Do you tend to change when things are all sweetness & light?

Make sure you keep an inner state of flexibility, and are not tightly bound to your visions.

Remove 'shoulds' from your vocabulary this year. Start your journey of self-love now.

Your self-worth and self-esteem cannot be changed by doing positive affirmations. If that were the case many people would be super confident and are not. It may appear to work for some, but only because they have already faced the hurts inside that have caused low self-worth and low self-esteem, and are ready to feel differently.

Acknowledging the pain and the suffering that take place inside you, and allowing the feelings, will take time, but this new way of handling these feelings will change the way you relate to you and to the outside world.

My light was held in the dark until I was ready. The darkness is not a thing to fear, simply a place of the unknown – yet to be. Embrace with love your own darkness and the light will reveal your worth.

Your life has a natural motion. Surrendering reveals how flowing this life could be.

SOAK UP with your senses the nature of this world. Leave nothing to chance, breathe it all in.
This is life!

Don't let goal setting become heavy weights. Remain flexible and allow room for intuitive changes.

When you look at your passions, your interests, and your own self, and see nothing of worth, then know that life will feed this belief back to you. If you can find a way to value yourself without exerting your will or your effort anymore, you will find that you need to do less, to shine more.

You're deliciously different, uniquely you, blessed with a heart of a lion and beautiful TOO!
'OWN' THAT SHIT!

How do you surrender when every cell of your being is screaming that your life is not working and that you need to do something to make it work? How do you surrender in that moment when jealousies, envy, doubt, rage, resentment all rise up inside you? You accept that you are resisting letting go; you accept that perhaps you are not yet ready to take your hands off the steering wheel; you accept this with kindness to who you are in the moment, being gentle and tender instead of beating yourself over the head with the 'Must hurry up, time is of the essence, everyone is passing me by' train of thought.

Some of you may feel that if you don't do something soon to change your life, you will be left by the roadside, alone, homeless and in despair. But is the despair not there as you reach and grapple to create or manifest your desires through your own effort and will? What happens if or when those things appear in your life? Joy? Peace? Or a temporary sense of relief?

What if it is relief from the wanting you have been craving for so long, not the outcome, but the relief from the constant wanting.

You'll be ready for this change - when you're ready – not a moment before. Don't beat yourself up if you're not ready.

Self-love is the side-effect of self-acceptance. Accept who you are and what is happening in your world and love naturally begins to flow back to self.