Jason Evert Quotes

If you decide to live a pure life, don't expect the world to understand your decision.

If by how you dress, you are saying to guys, "Hey, look at my body," why would a guy want to get to know you?

If you own pornography of any kind, for the love of your future spouse, trash it immediately.

If your heart says, "Maybe I shouldn't be doing this," listen to your heart, pray for strength, and get out of the situation immediately.

Even as you seek a virtuous, fair, and good spouse, ... it is fitting that you should be the same. - Saint Bernardino of Siena

Look at a crucifix. This is how I got my bride to heaven. How else do you think you will get yours there?

The right relationship won't distract you from God. It will bring you closer to Him.

When a woman dresses modestly, I can take her seriously as a woman because she doesn't look like she's begging for attention. She knows that she's worth discovering. Such humility is radiant. Unfortunately, many women are so preoccupied with turning men's heads that they overlook their power to turn our hearts.

Because of my value, I veil myself ... If I show too much, I wouldn't be revealing my true worth to you. I'd be distracting you from what matters most.

When you're dating, abstinence is a greater expression of love than making love, because you're doing what's best for your beloved, not just what feels good in the moment.

Friends with benefits are neither.

Love can wait to give. Lust can't wait to get.

Observations. Therefore, the entire archbishop's residence, from the bedroom to the dining room, was bugged with listening devices. The communists were rather clumsy about it, pretending to show up as random technicians who needed to work on the phone lines or electrical system.

Sex is not a tryout. If she fails to live up to your expectations in the bedroom, will you love her less? If so, you can be certain you never loved her to begin with.

Carry the rosary with you everywhere, and it will carry you through anything.

If you sincerely want to know if you're "going too far," don't ask yourself, "Is this bad?" Instead ask yourself, "Is this pure?"

Jesus didn't suffer so we wouldn't have to suffer. He suffered so that we would know how to suffer.

Treat your date with the respect and purity you hope your future spouse will have. Keep in mind how you will expect a young man to treat your daughter one day. By listening to your conscience in this way, you'll have a good idea of where to draw the line.

When a culture of ladies arises, a culture of gentlemen will follow.

Only falsehood wraps itself in a flood of words. Truth is brief.

When you feel far from God and far from everything that you wanted to be for Him, realize that you still have your whole future to give Him.

Purity is not about following a list of rules so that you'll avoid hell. It's about wanting heaven for the person you love.

Women are not thousands of temptations to hell. They are thousands of reminders of the beauty of heaven.

Without question, purity is beautiful. We're not talking about repression or prudishness, but about having a confident and serene sense of your dignity and worth.

G. K. Chesterton once said that the family is a cell of resistance to oppression. Unfortunately, this was one point of Catholic theology that the communists agreed with. To undermine Polish culture, communists struck at its heart - the family. Work and school schedules were organized so that parents had minimal contact with each other and with their children. Birth control and abortion were encouraged, state-sponsored sex education was implemented in schools, and apartments were built to accommodate only small families.

Don't worry about finding your soul mate. Find yourself.

If you are currently in a relationship in which you are also willing to 'do anything to make him happy,' even at your own expense, I want you to stop reading our book. Mark this page, close the book, and hit yourself over the head with it. Then continue reading.