Gary Kemp Quotes

Your life is the same wherever you go.

My instinct is to be very controlling.

Songwriting helps me sort out my personal problems. With acting, you're just a tool for someone's ideas.

I am a person who holds the aesthetic high. I have suits made in Savile Row.

Music gives voices to people struggling to come out of themselves.

I certainly wasn't a fan of Thatcher's politics. People liked to label us as children of Thatcher. What nonsense. The real children of Thatcher came in the 1990s, and had no interest in politics. The Oasis, Britpop scene.

My father had inklings of my cultural aspirations. He would take me to the library, things like that. But he wasn't one of those dads who had read George Orwell and was a member of the Communist party. We had no books at home.

We never had books at home, but my dad, seeing how keen I was to read, took me to Islington Library when I was about eight and we pulled out two - a Biggles and a science fiction novel. I never got the ace fighter pilot but fell in love with all things to do with the future and space. Isaac Asimov soon became my guiding star.

Don't give pain to others.

I have a terrible fear of travel. Just before we go, I start to panic and tell my wife I don't want to go. It's ridiculous. But actually it's only when it's somewhere I've not been to before.

Love is family, support, priority, and understanding.

I keep my house tidy, because then I can think clearly. I feel the same about myself. Presenting yourself well is a working-class thing - my dad was a printer, but he wore a tie most days. The ungroomed look belongs more to the middle classes.

Punk was sort of an angry stance against things that had happened just before, against the pop of glam rock, against progressive rock. Music had become very staid and it was about the playing and people obsessed. Eric Clapton was God and we needed an enema within the art form, and punk did do that.

Don't see the point in reading ghost-written autobiographies, even though some of these published lives may fascinate me. The 'ghost' is always present, manipulating an interview into first-person singular text, and it feels like I'm reading a lie.

I think my younger self would be more amazed to know I was doing an interview for 'The Spectator.'

I think I tried to control situations within my first marriage and I wasn't the easiest person to live with.

Road cycling, especially up mountains. It's the heady mixture of endorphins and aesthetics that I love. My wife does it too, and being with her in extreme but beautiful conditions adds to the experience and our relationship.

I detest that saying 'Everything happens for a reason'; it's nonsense.

I'm an atheist. I don't 'believe' at all.

I've been through Hell with some of the members of my old band, and Hell is highly stressful.

Why do I find it hard to write the next line?

I love my children unconditionally.

The breakup of my first marriage was my first failure; I had to learn to accept that and support the people involved. The court case brought against me by three of the band was awful, but learning how to let it go, move on, and come back together as friends and creative partners was a life lesson above any other.

Being onstage is a way of harnessing your vulnerability and using the adrenaline to be creative. It's a very vulnerable place to be - technically, emotionally, and physically - but I love it.

The thought of going on tour with people like Toyah Wilcox is just appalling. I'm certainly not tempted.

Kevin Costner told me that 'True' was his and his wife's song. I'm not sure if that's a good thing because they split up soon after.

My life is routine-obsessed. I'm OCD, and if I'm not at home, I always get up early and exercise. I don't crash and burn at night, not these days, so early-ish to bed. At home, I have three small boys who bring me down to earth with school runs and endless meals.

I love England. I don't really like places when they're too hot. It's my Celtic blood.

I am a metrosexual and into male grooming - I moisturise, I exfoliate.

I think sometimes my controlling instincts came out of a fear of other people.

Do not dehumanize others.