Sherry Argov Quotes

She lets him see how
afraid she is to be without him and he soon comes to feel as though
he has a 100 percent hold on her. This is often the point when
women begin to complain: He doesn't make enough time for me.
He isn't as romantic as he used to be.

The woman who is unforgettably sexy is a confident woman who can function on her own, and who won't always let him have the upper hand... with one caveat... she can't be too strong or combative that he feels emasculated

Adopt the attitude I refuse to walk around like an exposed raw nerve. I've made up my mind that I'm going to be upbeat, positive, and I won't believe what other people tell me about myself.

Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turnd on by a woman who cares about her own pleasures as well.

Everybody has fallen down or been disappointed in love. Where you truly shine is when you get back up. Use it as a learning experience and believe in all of the possibilities.

He'll do what you like just long enough to get what he wants.

If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.

It isn't about the looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day. It isn't about intelligence. Women of all types, from brilliant women to women with the IQ equivalent of plant life, pull it off every day. It's about mystery and learning how to create intrigue.

A beautiful woman can make herself
look ugly in the eyes of a man if she is very insecure.

If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that.

To a guy, quality time consists of sitting in the same room and relaxing with a woman he's in love with, even if they are both doing a separate activity. When a guy is madly in love, being together is exciting. If the chemistry is right, the girl would not need continual conversation. Without comfortable silence, he will never feel like he can recharge his batteries.

It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.

Don't let the advertisements on TV be your guide. The woman who sustains a man's interest is not the one who feels confident because of a particular miniskirt, a belly ring, or a black dress with plunging neckline. A bitch doesn't rely on these things to feel good about herself. She relies on who she is as a woman.

Women are conditioned to give themselves away.

When a man likes you, he will be interested in finding out what you like. If he makes you happy, he feels more secure. Everything men do is intended to impress women.

The person who is least dependent on the outcome of the relationship will automatically draw the other person in.

Men can shift gears from romantic to practical - and so can the bitch.

And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it.

If the sex was too easy to get,
it was not that great.

The biggest variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice

The biggest turn-on for a man is knowing that he is in love with a woman he can really count on, who will really be there for him.

When you nag, you become the problem, an he deals with it by turning you out, but when you dont nag, he deals with the problem.

Relationship Principle 11
It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.

Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he's with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun.

The bitch is very nice. She is as sweet as a Georgia peach. But inside every sweet peach is a strong pit. And this means she won't explain the obvious when a man is disrespectful.

Relationship Principle 5
Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself.

Position without nagging or repeating yourself several times. If he asks, "Is something wrong?" take a breath and respond calmly. "Yes, something is wrong, but I'd like to talk about it later. I really don't want to talk about it now.

It is important to be able to do stuff alone and not have her give you a hard time about it.

Relationship Principle 3
He doesn't marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.

The nice girl meets a guy and acts like she joined a cult. In the beginning, a guy might ask her what she likes. The nice girl makes the mistake of shrugging her shoulders and saying: 'I like anything you like.'

Success in love isn't about looks, it's about attitude.

When you are happy, you are sexy

Expressing yourself when he takes for granted doesn't work.

The bitch does not stop moving to her own rhythm. This, in and of itself, prevents her from becoming off-balance like a nice girl who abandons her routine.

Live by your own rules Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else's drum Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don't get what you want.

It's that a bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.

When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there.

Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you.

Intelligent women make the mistake of assuming that if they hold a higher degree, they can hold their own in a political debate, and they have a good understanding of mid-caps

If she's too predictable because you talk about the relationship all the time instead of going out and having one, he'll get bored quickly.

When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that's when he won't want to leave your side. When you are happy, you are sexy.

If she has six good points and you have one semigood little point, place all of the emphasis on your one semigood little point.

Overcompensating or being too eager to please will lessen a man's
respect; it will give the kiss of death to his attraction,

Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.

A girlfriend went on a couple of dates with a guy who criticized the color of her nail polish. She said, "The suggestion department is closed for the evening, but fax your idea tomorrow and we'll file it right over there in the suggestion box." (Then she pointed to the kitchen trash.)

Men control the world, but women control the men.

Sophia Loren said, Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.

Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves

Men are selfish and don't think about anything else but them self. pg. 45

She knows what she wants but won't compromise herself to get it. But she's feminine, like "Steel Magnolia"
flowery on the outside, steel on the inside. She uses this very femininity to her own advantage. It isn't that she takes undue advantage of men, because she plays fair. She has one thing the nice girl doesn't: a presence of mind because she isn't swept away by a romantic fantasy. This presence of mind enables her to wield her power when it is necessary.

The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.

If you smother him, he'll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect his freedom.

A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won't kill herself to impress anyone.

It becomes a burden if you lean on him too much. He is only human, and he has his own problems. Show him that you'll be an equal partner, which means that you also have something to contribute.

Anything a person chases in life runs away.

One of the things women have to get out of their mindset is the notion of what a bitch is. A bitch is nice. She's sweet as a Georgia peach. She smiles and she is feminine. She just doesn't make decisions based on the fear of losing a man.

When a woman acts as though she's capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.

With a woman he's crazy about, he'll put in all the overtime in the world. He'll be doing things for you, he'll be considerate, he'll want to please you, he'll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most.

It isn't about looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day.

For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun.

The nice girl thinks she's giving up something to get something better in return. She gives up control over her own life. When the time comes for her to get what she expected, she winds up disappointed. In addition to being empty-handed, she's depleted.

Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.

There's nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or strugle a little bit to get.

If you want to control your emotions, you have to control your thoughts.

Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't.

Let's qualify. A worthless guy who likes insecure women wants to mistreat her so he can feel powerful. Why is he worthless? Because he has no moral compass. To him, cruelty is a good thing. (That alone makes him worthless.)

Until he gives you a reason not to trust him, behave as though you trust him.

People use the excuse of money, time, being away from the kids to stop being intimate or romantic. It's really important to keep the passion.

When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.

It's true that men say, "A man's love comes from his stomach". But there's nothing in this statement that requires you to cook the food before it ends up in his stomach.

The nice girl loses an important protective mechanism when she assumes that life is fair, or that Prince Charming will always protect her. The smart fox is not governed by wishful thinking or the hope of a fantasy outcome, like Cinderella. Despite appearances, she trusts herself to watch her OWN back instead of giving a man the responsibility of doing it for her.

The nice girl makes the mistake of being available all the time.

More than anything else, he watches to see if you'll be too emotionally dependent on him.

Talking about the "relationship" too much takes away the element of the "unknown" and thus the mystery.

Men tend to fall in love when they feel like they are cherished or revered as the 'man' in the relationship.

A bitch is more selective about her availability. She's available
sometimes; other times she's not. But she's nice.

Once you start laughing, you start healing.

That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you
until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy ... and yes ... your emotional stability ... those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.

When a man meets a woman who seems too perfect, too sweet, or too agreeable, he tends to become bored very quickly.

Correcting the situation or by not allowing the person to have access to you.

Throughout life, people will try to shake your faith in yourself. When this happens, remind yourself that the only way they can succeed is if you allow it. When you walk down the street of life, always hold your head high and keep walking. Don't ever let anyone shake your faith in yourself, because that's really all that you have.

Women tend to love men in their presence, while men tend to love women in their absence.

The best advice I ever heard is, don't take anyone else's advice." There's power in this because it puts you in the conductor's seat, right at "the controls" in your life. It doesn't mean you should stop seeking information or outside input, it just means that you're the one driving. You choose your own destination.

When it comes to believing in yourself, put your eye on the mark and don't blink. If you have a goal, a dream, or an aspiration ... believe in yourself while you are on the way to your destination, and you will have already arrived.

If a relationship is on-and-off within the first year, that's an immediate sign you are wasting your time.

Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he'll pay even less attention to your feelings.

When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless

As soon as a manhas his guard up. he will not fall in love or get attached the only way he'll get attached is if you lower his guard first.

When you tell a man how you feel, most of the time he doesn't understand what you're talking about. You'll probably just confuse and frustrate him.